What is your definition of freedom? In a committed, monogamous relationship, no one wants a partner who strays.
What do you fear about the future? Do you prefer a date watching Netflix and chill alone, or going out at the movie theater? What band would be the coolest to see live if their band name literally described the band? People get defensive real quick if you talk bad about their family.
You can see what really chokes them up.
Stick to fun, innocent stuff.