Ok so like it mentioned earlier I go talk to him like once a week, so once I did not go see him for like two weeks and you know he pretty much came looking for me.
Their charm to draw people in and have people gravitate toward them makes Cancers prone to manipulating others and getting what they want.
They will want to create a family so they will both plan for this future by saving lots of money.
You can convince her otherwise but it will take several tries.