Ever considered hosting an event at your own place? If she's a 9 or 10 out of 10, it's going to be extremely hard to win her an keep her because she's considered cream of the crop.
I would be the first brother to admit that at 41 I have some issues and am single.
Are singles too picky when it comes to love? On these sites the tables are turned.
But my soul searching has led me to realize how beautiful our relationship is, and that yes, he has brought me closer to Christ through our discussions and through our relationship, and that I know he will always be supportive of my relationship with Christ, as well as his own, even if his and mine look a little different.